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Can three generations of a British Asian family ever agree on the rules of dating in the modern age? And what’s the big deal about mixed race relationships anyway? This is the first of four episodes, as part of The Big British Asian Summer. Matt Shaw - Series Producer Mobeen Azhar - Executive Producer Ertu Muslu - Editor Tom Buckman - Editor Archie Kalyana - Casting Producer Rahnak Patel - Development Executive -- Click here to subscribe to BBC Three: http://bit.ly/BBC-Three-Subscribe Did you know that we’re up to other things in other places too? Best of BBC Three: www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree iPlayer: http://www.bbc.co.uk/tv/bbcthree Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/bbcthree Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbcthree Instagram: http://instagram.com/bbcthree Tumblr: http://bbcthree.tumblr.com Oh, we’re on Snapchat too - just incase you were wondering… add us, bbcthree.
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Alisha K (25 days ago)
lol i hate the asian way of thinking towards relationships, literally it’s so sexist towards girls who want to be in a relationship and there’s so much pressure to please ur parents and have ur education, lol my dad always told me yk live in the moment and love who u want and i’m so grateful for that but i see my cousins who aren’t able to have the same experiences as me because their parents aren’t open minded enough.
blah blah (16 days ago)
Alisha K you like who you like end of
Empyrean Dawson (1 month ago)
so backward
Peyman Malek (2 months ago)
Why is the caste system still a thing?
bdpride (2 months ago)
dude i was raised in usa since age 4, am 33 now, and i hate to say it but our folks know what they are talking about. its beyond lust and love, two needs to provide for each other, eventually their kids. make house, play house. majority of times, it doesn't work and ends in despair. i love bengali girls, love pakistani girls more, but most attracted to nepali mongolian type women.
Nick Will (3 months ago)
I hate asians
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
And they hate you and your tiny pink dicks
Tech x (1 month ago)
and we hate you
Craft and Conjure (3 months ago)
You can help who you fall in love with. Use logic Saved my ass plenty of times. Still working to be honest
Jonathan La-Crette (3 months ago)
Craft and Conjure smart person 👌🏿
Rich 91 (4 months ago)
these mothers are so deluded lol, MI5 need to hire young british asian girls lol, theyd be able to keep secrets the best
xrx0R 9 (19 days ago)
Rich 91 True.
DV M (2 months ago)
Nkechi Osuamoh (4 months ago)
the REAL question is if they brought a BLACK guy girl home? I think there would be more controversy especially in Hindu households. Having said so, it's not racist to date within your race, its a beautiful thing to share a similar cultural experience
Jeffrey Ngullie (1 day ago)
+Jonathan La-Crette oh really lol check this out https://youtu.be/k6OmhfOgj_4 and please get your facts right before you say things tat hurt people every race have its rotten tomatoes tat doesn't mean you have to generalized it
Alisha K (25 days ago)
Jonathan La-Crette stop chatting shit about different ethnicities when you barely know us lmfaoooo
Jonathan La-Crette (3 months ago)
Rich 91 do Asian guys pump and dump Asian women? Must be Pakistani . Indians don’t do that. Least not the Indians I know.
Rich 91 (4 months ago)
+Nkechi Osuamoh theres a big difference between a indian chick going out with a black guy whose a drug dealer, whose dads in prison or has 4 baby mamas etc vs some nigerian whose parents are professionals and are married...unfortunately you cant tell who is who although i know my best friends sister is a single mother by a black guy, many indian women in my family are also single mothers from asian guys...
Nkechi Osuamoh (4 months ago)
True! I’ve never ever agreed with a comment more on YouTube! I live life by that hahahaha
David X (4 months ago)
South asian men have the least social value in UK behind black men. Overwhelming majority of white men and women date within their own race, with the exception of a tiny minority of white women who date black men which is fetishisation itself.
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
Stfu we south asian men love our south asian queens
Tech x (1 month ago)
south Asian men are not desperate to date white women. South Asians overwhelmingly marry their own. It's many of you blacks who are desperate to date out.
Bidu Bidu (4 months ago)
Yes you are a racist...if you date out.
invs ink (5 months ago)
I doubt they r dating anyone outside their own family ffs
Anhar saleh (7 days ago)
blah blah (16 days ago)
invs ink mad 😂
Peter Kazavis (5 months ago)
There is absolutely nothing wrong with only dating within your race.
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. black men are racist to non-whtie women
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. you saying indian women obessed with white men, because deep down you feel rejected by them as a black man,hahah. indian girls are loyal to indian men unlike you white worshipping black men
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. or maybe he genuinely does not like em...i find it funny when black men dont like a race, no one thinks its because they are butthurt or racist.
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
tell that to all the obessesed white people at the BBC
pwilsonlf3 (6 months ago)
I only date blonde white women. Does that make me racist against brunette white women?
Henry Fung (4 months ago)
+Rich 91 india treats its women like crap, and you accuse indian women of being the issue
Henry Fung (4 months ago)
+Rich 91 most men would date a black woman over an indian woman., i never see men date indian women in my life. men do not like them, and its not princess syndrome, i have met many who are humble, but treated like crap
Rich 91 (4 months ago)
+Henry Fung they do but most have a princess syndrome, i would date a black girl with natural hair over a indian chick with any princess syndrome, or more succintly i would treat her like a princess then dump her
xile. Xx (5 months ago)
pwilsonlf3 and all fettishes get grown out of one day :)
xile. Xx (5 months ago)
pwilsonlf3 nah it means you have a fettish
Angry Black Man (6 months ago)
Don't date outside your race, protect your culture and your race. Black should not date non black, Asian should not date non Asian, Arabs should not date non Arab, everyone should date inside their race.
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
+Angry Black Man bro in the west, the black man is going to crazy to marry out their race
MP R (4 months ago)
Angry Black Man I’m not talking about Africa or the rest of the world. I’m talking about here in UK, where this video is from too. 50% of black British Caribbean men alone, have a white partner..that’s a very high number, especially as black people as a whole are only 3.3% of the UK. No other ethnic group in UK has such high interracial relations.
Angry Black Man (1 month ago)
+MP R if black date out the most, so explain me how we have black people again and lot of black kids? African will be 1billion in 2050 and white people fear it the most so can you tell me how is it possible if you think we date the most outside our race? No one should date outside her race.
MP R (4 months ago)
Angry Black Man let’s be real, that’s very ironic coming from a black man, who date out the most lol!
Otitis Jeje (6 months ago)
Indians worst racists!! Cows are better
Tech x (1 month ago)
I bet you're a black monkey desperate to date out, I've noticed many blacks call people racist for not dating out hence why blacks get so butthurt about this.
Ethan Gray (7 months ago)
Why are Liberals trying to force people to date those they don't have an interest in?
DV M (2 months ago)
Who's forcing?!
Dragon ologist (7 months ago)
If white people said this shit they'd he called racists.
Oliwia Kmiecik (7 months ago)
Not all Indians are the same neither are Muslims, my boyfriend's family is Muslim but they don't mind that I'm white,spiritual or that we're not married.
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
That Muslim isnt even supposed to be dating. To add insult to injury that muslim is with a non muslim....no, gtfo
sorkenyo (7 months ago)
no its not lmfao just depends on the family. my parents wud kill me if i had a gf (not literally) and i wud be v upset if i had a son who had sex before marriage. not everyone subscribes to double standards and whats expected of boys is expected of girls.
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
but its different for the women isn't , you and your muslim boyfriend have it easier than muslim women
eustace mullins (7 months ago)
Up to 75% of all Muslim marriages involve first cousins.
Tech x (1 month ago)
that's specifically Pakistanis, although it's 55% in the uk, 75% is in Bradford specifically.
Mohib Ahmed (18 hours ago)
99 % of the Christians eat pig, drink alcohol and do premarital sex. All these things are also prohibited in the bible but you guys still do it anyway. Therefore you Christians have no right to criticise Islam.
manchester city real fan (2 months ago)
Tarsem Das Lol stop lying your not even Asian I'm Indian so trust me it isn't a religious thing as Hindus and Sikhs can do it as well you know.
manchester city real fan (2 months ago)
Rohina Exactly European Muslims don't marry cousins African Muslims don't really marry cousins Converts don't marry cousins Even most Arabs don't marry cousin. It's a cultural thing done by Muslims, Sikhs and Hindus south Asians however 75% is a bullshit stat it would only be around 8% now (mostly by those who are immigrants)
Kaetii Jay (7 months ago)
It's racist if you're making a point to not date outside your race because you think they're lesser than you. It's not racist if that's just who you find yourself most attracted to. As for the "boys can date anytime to test the waters but girls can't" thing, it doesn't really make sense then does it? What about all the girls the boys went through while 'testing'? Are they no longer marriable women? I think that says more about the men than the women.
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
Their indian son should have found an indian girl
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. you need to make sense. first you cry indians stick to themselves...now you cry, they want white? hahaha you make no sense.
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. crying racism at asians, but then making generalisations at asians...hahaha and even saying you prefer whites and blacks. just proves the hypocritical dumb nature people like you will NOT be taken seriously, mend your white worshipping community and ask why black footballers ALL date white women before you cry "racism"
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. i have never met a black man or woman who admits to liking asians, far too often they go for white people. i take that as a form of racism. but everyone goes hard on asians.
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. so all those black men who ONLY date white women are racist?
Lemon Grab (7 months ago)
P:Date that black girl M:But that not really my thing I find this girl atttactive. P:But she’s the same race!!! M:and so what? P:that racist u pig M:but isn’t it racist to say I can’t like a girl just cause of her race? P:exactly so if you marry the same race it’s racist M:but your disapproving based on her race.....
Lidku Simpson (7 months ago)
+Henry Fung Huh? I'm a Black person from the USA and I love Indian women. To assume all Black men like white women is a racist sterotype perpetuated by the media
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
black men hate non=white women
NodusTollens (7 months ago)
The muslim granny is like "whatever race, but muslim" and the other one comes in and is like "caste is caste....anything other than a muslim, even lower caste is better, etc" the mom is like " boys can test the water, but not the girls!". Easy to say which side is more close minded, isn't?
Ryk Son (3 months ago)
A girl has a vagina that can look very beaten up and worn out in appearance and she has a proof of virginity ( most do anyway) but with a man his penis shows no real sign of wear and use.. so there isca big difference , thats why many cultures have the white sheet on the wedding night to show that the girl was a virgin.. that can be faked too .. but you get my point!
Exactly what my mother inlaw said..... im black n my hubby is bengali we muslims
M 22:22 (7 months ago)
Caste and religion oh lawd
anon ymous (7 months ago)
Quote of the year by grandma, "u like you love BUT don't touch sex"
crybaby 4 life (7 months ago)
No Your brain controls who you love
Wun Too (3 months ago)
Love and lust are different, lust is the "love at first sight" hollywood nonsense.
Peter Kazavis (5 months ago)
Swing and a miss
Ashley Oasis (7 months ago)
The Indians call the rest of us BMWs-black Muslim white the three forbidden apples.they think blacks are low caste due to thier dark skin they think whites are drunken degenerates and Muslims are barbarians.god forbid a half black half white guy who converted to Islam and lives in Pakistan lol
Gcse Revision (8 months ago)
This is toxic , people can do what they want stop looking for oppression
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
where is the looking, its staring us in the face
Tecnovlog (8 months ago)
india is so backward
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
How is this backward?
Tech x (1 month ago)
it's not backwards to prefer people based on cultural similarity, that's normal which most people do. Also most Indians don't prefer one another based on caste, they prefer based on religion and language group. I've noticed most of the people who get butthurt is those who are desperate to date out.
Potater Tots (5 months ago)
They’re British but of Indian descent yeah
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
but the british banned interracial marriage when they got to india
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
but why is it that whit men can CHOOSE not to date indian women, and no one cries racism
NM (8 months ago)
Poor representation of Indian families and their beliefs. We’re not all like this.
DV M (2 months ago)
Just most of us!!
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
its racist, when no one ever asks why so many white people don't want to date indians. that is apparently just prefeence
p kamble (8 months ago)
I am buddhist and am marring with muslim girl this happen because of our constitution #indian is tha best
xtremeownage2 (1 month ago)
Fake Hindu troll account. Hindus are obsessed with posting random fake stories of getting with a Muslim girl. Shows insecurity of Hindu males.
RocStream (8 months ago)
I'm Indian these are cultural values in Asia sorry , but it doesn't make it wrong. just different way to living . I don't agree to disagree .
Wun Too (3 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. You have a slave name, sit down you house negro
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
+roger Powell sr. black men are RACIST!!!! you know jack shit. indian girls families do not like white men. they are not the same as black communities, who are obessesd with white so much there is a term called SWIRLING admit it, black men worship whtie women....and the "white woman" is acceptable currency black men are RACIST, indian women NEVER mix to the crazy high level black men do
Dragon ologist (8 months ago)
They always want the whites lol
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
+Mash bruh you're telling the truth, smh what happened to them Do they realize what they're doing? The men are also digging their own graves but women are doing it in greater numbers
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
+Henry Fung you're right about the black man part though
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
+Henry Fung that's not true
Tech x (1 month ago)
If they prefer their own and want to date and marry their own then how do they want to be white?
Mash (1 month ago)
There ain’t no more decent south asian women out here in the west 😂 all of them have inferiority complexes and chase white men only. Occasionally black.
George Mc (8 months ago)
Let’s be honest it’s only racist if your European native and express this view
Henry Fung (6 months ago)
i remember a white woman saying she preferred white men. preference is not racist
Henry Fung (6 months ago)
most white men look the fuck down on these women so they are not beig racist to ignore these racist white men.
Rosalina 90 (6 months ago)
No, they are still being racist, but it's the power certain kinds of racism has that is the issue. White surpemacy was a big issue for a long time so its effects are still felt, that is why people talk about it. That some brown people don't want their boy dating me, it doesn't hurt me on a systemic level because this is not an issue I have faced in my life, because self conscious or internalizing that I am less than because of my race which a lot of black people do I never felt, not for a second nor do any white person I know. I am sick of white victimhood. Our whiteness is not hurting us. These people are being racist, but you know what in a few generations westernized Indians won't be like that, those sorts of cultures can't survive long term in the west. It is religion that is an issue. Hindu, whatever but Islam does take a strong hold and makes integration harder. I am an anti theist, so I do not care for religion. I do not dislike muslims, I just don't want any religion to spread even more in the west, or anywhere.
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
no, because the BBC is accusing these indians, even though idnians are not liked by whites for marriage
Lifeskeyishappiness (8 months ago)
I'm happy to date outside my race, the problem is my family and their religious & cultural values
cary bary (8 months ago)
Why aren’t more white lefties living in black and Asian dominated neighbourhoods ? Are lefties fraudulent?
Tech x (1 month ago)
+Henry Fung i'm indian and it's predominantly blacks who call people racist for not dating them because they are so desperate to date out and so they get really butthurt when they are not accepted and call them racist. It shows what an inferiority complex they have, but it's normal that most people date their own for social and cultural reason, which most people do of course. blacks are the only one's who call people racist for preferring their own. You are chatting shit about white conservative calling Indians racist for dating within, they are the last people who would do that. it's mostly only blacks who say this.
DV M (2 months ago)
+Rosalina 90 I'm not gayy
Henry Fung (6 months ago)
funny how black and asian people are not lefties in his mind
Rosalina 90 (6 months ago)
Uh, you mean champagne liberals or actual leftists?
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
white people are allowed to not find indians attractive, b ut when indians keep to their own, conservatives cry "itregation" or "racism!
Gg Gg (8 months ago)
Asian are the most racist people in the UK don't tell me you mulium are not I'm muslium and I'm sure Pakistani girl won't allow black guy because parents say no 😂
Khan Hossain (1 month ago)
+Henry Fung bullshit fam, that's the only the ratchet low class asian women who do so. The rest hold it down for the asian man
Tech x (1 month ago)
I've noticed many of you blacks are desperate to date out and if which ever group doesn't want to be with blacks then you call them racist, because it gets you really butthurt. Don't blame others because you have an inferiority complex. it's natural that most people prefer their own for social and cultural reasons.
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
all my black friends admit they ONLY want white women
Henry Fung (7 months ago)
hahahaha we all know that black men WANT WHITE WOMEN the most, every black guy would rather date a white woman than a black one. daitng asian esp dark skinned indians is dating down for them. blacks love their whites these days. and play into eurocentric ideals of women, don't deny it ALL black footballers date whit women, and many profress a preference fcr white women indian women stick to their own BUT yes chinese women do prefer whtie men, their choice like black men like white women
Jujhar Bling (8 months ago)
Not racist just somthing that is taboo did the culture and traditions are different. However I know lots of ppl who have
Surii (8 months ago)
I said this on the first time it was uploaded. Its not racist at all. Most people date and marry within their own race.
Johnr Roberts (16 days ago)
Of course it's racist. It's the the most widespread form of racism because it's worldwide. Just because most races do it doesn't make it any less racist. Children are pressured by their parents to be racist by not accepting those outside their own race as potential partners.
Reqz Vile (8 months ago)
who dates asians out of choice...
Tech x (1 month ago)
most Asians do, but you're just too retarded to know that.
Potater Tots (5 months ago)
white guys
Henry Fung (5 months ago)
then don't cry about them not "intergrating"
Adam James (5 months ago)
Loool... My thoughts exactly.
07448632201 Singh (8 months ago)
People who talk about castes are wastes
07448632201 Singh (6 months ago)
+Tarsem Das ouu we have a backward ass MF
Rosalina 90 (6 months ago)
I mean she is old, so no point trying to change her, next generations must change, it's disgusting, no one is a "caste" it's made up,
Tarsem Das (7 months ago)
tu churha lagda mainu
Chrisy D (7 months ago)
Offending them doesn't help.
Cute Cookie (8 months ago)
07448632201 Singh for sureee!!

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