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HOW TO AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE | Escape the Friend Zone for Good | ALEX COSTA

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This is how you get out of the friend zone for good! ● FOLLOW MY INSTAGRAM - https://goo.gl/jmK8if ● SUBSCRIBE TO ALEX COSTA - https://goo.gl/RQdFEH ● Facebook - http://goo.gl/BYNdnw ● Twitter - https://goo.gl/ML7aaw ● Snapchat - xmadeinbrazil Topic of discussion: Have you ever been in the friend zone? I know the friend zone very very well! And if there is one thing we know for sure, it's that it's horrible! Sometimes it's hard to even know how you got in the friend zone in the first place. But don't worry, there are definite ways to avoid it, and even if you're already in the friend zone, you can escape it! How do you get out of the friend zone? Simple! Follow the steps in the video to make sure it never happens again! It's not going to be easy, but trust me - You can do it! Btw - I don't think I've ever posted a dating advice video before. What do you guys think? Should I talk more about dating how to's, some personal experiences, and how you can be more confident when it comes to girls? Comment below! Check out my other videos: Men's Outfit Inspiration: https://goo.gl/5fLRTj Healthy Hair Tips For Men: https://goo.gl/M1YiZj How to Get Straight Hair Permanently: https://goo.gl/3IBiIB How To Get Ready For a Date: https://goo.gl/4yIL90 How to Grow a Beard Faster Naturally: https://goo.gl/R3UIF0 4 Easy Winter Outfits for Men: https://goo.gl/HQGXcX Best Men's Hairstyle 2017: https://goo.gl/UUIBXk How to Escape and avoid the friend zone How to get out of the friend zone with dating advice On my channel you will find videos about men's fashion, hair, health, fitness, overall lifestyle, and of course, my personal life. This includes my friends, family, and work, so please be mindful and keep a positive vibe in the comment section. Don't forget to subscribe and make sure to hit that like button if you enjoyed the video!
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Bill Singe (6 days ago)
Send her a GIF of Elvis blowing a kiss. I dunno I did that half and hour ago. 🤞
Bulcsú Várhegyi (9 days ago)
I have a question about that point with getting physically close to each other: If we are at a cinema, watching a movie and if I lean my head on sort of side and top of her head (I hope that you can imagine what I mean), would the relationship go in the way of friendship or love? I am asking because I think it would go in the way of friendship instead of love, and I think that if she would lean her head onto my shoulder, then it would go in the way of love. Am I right?
Just Fun and knowledge (11 days ago)
Mr Costa please from now onwards can make video with sub title it will help more to understand your video and this video helps me a lot and now I had my partner so thanks a lot 😉☺️
Julie RedTree Shaman (1 month ago)
I love this.
Alexander Cavill (2 months ago)
Yoo where can I get that clean jacket tho?
Yeabarron Store (2 months ago)
Love your channel. Subscribed. Useful videos for guys, come on!
Nicolas Whyte (2 months ago)
Who is the girl of the cover
Jarrett Justin (2 months ago)
I have a friend that I’ve known for multiple years and within the last 2 years I have become really good friends with her. She is super nice/caring/funny and cute. Up until about a year ago I never saw us as more than friends, but we’ve gotten a lot closer as of late. But when people have asked/said stuff about us dating she says no, he is like a brother to me. :/ And I don’t know about you, but let me tell yuh, thats FAMILY ZONED! I didn’t know there was a zone farther than the friend zone, but I’ve managed to find it. It’s really great that we have such a close friendship, but I someday hope that she will see us as more than just friends. Thanks for reading, hopefully you don’t find yourself in a situation such as mine. 👍 Good Luck
Albert Precia (3 months ago)
I liked your videos, because it's WORTH IT 100%❤️
MbM Clan (3 months ago)
Crap i screwed it up
HARSH PATEL (3 months ago)
Best advice ever!
George Zagoudis (4 months ago)
Love your content man! 🤙🏼🤙🏼 from Australia
mva4D (4 months ago)
Touch Barrier....ha! You better let her touch you.
ExFOX (4 months ago)
Thanks daddy
Pasha Boss (4 months ago)
the most important idea here and speaking from personal experience is that you should be willing to loose the girl as friend if you really wanna try and escalate cause once she rejects you its really difficult to return to the same state of friendship you had
Chris Kimber (4 months ago)
Solid advice thanks! Whats the coat? I like it.
Patrick C (4 months ago)
"If I want a friend I'll buy a dog!" - say that and then cut her off and MOVE ON!
Chris Carpenter (4 months ago)
Urmm....I don't actually know if she likes me or not? But she said she likes me and her family said she likes me . Does that means that she likes me?
harison lrocks (5 months ago)
Really really helpful video !!!
Steve Rodriguez (5 months ago)
In order to avoid it, make shit as physical as soon as possible
Manash Gogoi (5 months ago)
The best way to avoid friendzone is not to interact with any girls.
Alex Costa (5 months ago)
Hahah great strategy
Naman Singla (5 months ago)
Thanks bro your tips really work....😅😄
AmK Gaming (5 months ago)
clearly just moved on feels better than being hurt nice video man 😍
69 or 420 (5 months ago)
A girl sent me a message Like she basically came after me and I know I will screw this and will end up on the friend zone like I always do
kartik TYAGI (5 months ago)
I'm friends with benefits... Idk how to think about that...
Saurabh Chaudhari (6 months ago)
Another great vedio.....
Shakier Puttur (6 months ago)
Which background music?
Padma Lamichane (6 months ago)
Jose the type of oh sorry wrong channel
SaRo (7 months ago)
Who else is in the friend zone while watching
OfficialJojoxWolf (7 months ago)
Anyone watching to get prepared to tell their crush that they like them? 😂😭😭 Me too!
Clint Zuleger (7 months ago)
That is a nice jacket though. Where is it from?
Samyak Agarwal (7 months ago)
Ok man i will try lets see what happens
salmaan kaka (7 months ago)
I love your jacket bro 👌
Kevin Start (7 months ago)
So, I bet there are girls watching it and Friend zoning every guy.
Sonjadesu (7 months ago)
Be confident, love yourself and introduce touch early like he said. :)
PRO Dog lover (8 months ago)
So we just met each other a week ago...and I think she likes me, and my friend thinks she likes me..but idk how to tell her 😫
Archie Balagtas (8 months ago)
Asheya will never ever like me
alexdelamundy (8 months ago)
Man this video really helped me out ... thanks man.
David King Jr (8 months ago)
Damn 😂😂😂
hari sankar (8 months ago)
Don't talk with your mutual friends Because sometimes it will give you the worst result.instead try something else .
DuhItsStefan (9 months ago)
not every hero wear capes...
kitkatkid1976 (10 months ago)
What if were in school
Alvaro Maguiña (10 months ago)
This guide was actually so good I'm now married and expecting octuplets. Thanks so much Alex!
Ammar Nadir (10 months ago)
you look like robert downey jr
mikeee (10 months ago)
Your videos help us to learn a lot mateee ✌️✌️✌️
Subhash Ska (10 months ago)
You are always coorect
Zama Su (10 months ago)
I hate friend zone. Many of my "used to be" friends became either my enemies, found someone cooler than me, or used me as an outcast for other.
how to avoid friendzone? EZ PZ LEMON SQUEEZY say " listen to "friend" in marshmello song and all of that are my answers.
SOBERANO Games (11 months ago)
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Kid Dynamite (11 months ago)
Thanks
Annel Carmona (1 year ago)
What if I think this guy had feelings he would hug me hello goodbye I think he liked me ... but he wasn’t over the ex they where together for 5 years .. she got with someone else pretty fast he sounded hurt. This was 3 months ago he said he needed to focus on his career .. I saw him again 3 months later now he seeing a girl I don’t think he’s over the ex cause my cousin said he brings her up, she thinks He got with this girl so she could tell the ex.he keeps comparing himself to the ex’s new boyfriend. Him and I haven’t been introduced we never actually talked last time I saw him he was mentioning the ex I figured “give him time “ I see him again think oh now we can talk .. he avoids me but looks worried the whole time he barely makes contact with me he’s avoiding me .. at the end of the day he hugs my cousin gives me a handshake and said that was a bad handshake and he gives me another one 🙄 why did he give me a handshake twice ? He hasn’t posted anything with this girl on Instagram he only posts stuff about his job family... he’s still following me on there .. and seeing what I post. What can I do. We don’t see eachother cause I live an hour away , I was thinking of moving near my cousin to prevent this from happening I think it was too fast 3 months barely to get over the ex. should I still go for it take the job near my cosins ? She Dosent know I like him or that we follow eachother social media no one knows we follow eachother except for us . Like I said we haven’t been introduced what can I do.?
Pelle (1 year ago)
Im a little confused... I told her best friend that I liked her, they told it to her and I knew it. We all knew it. It was akward at first, but whe’re actually closer now, A LOT closer. She sends ALL the signes of attraction, and barely none of the friendzone ones, but I still got this weird feeling that Im friendzoned...
DarkMugiwara (1 year ago)
You spoke nothing but the absolute truth on this one. Keep up the amazing content 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Andrewgeo (1 year ago)
Hi! I'm new to the friendzone... And now I realized how much it hurts...
Vicky Shah (1 year ago)
Post some more videos on dating advised.
om kant tiwari (1 year ago)
last tip is the fittest one..👌😂
anoniem anoniem (1 year ago)
Tank yo brada yo showed me da wae
Ani Dhar (1 year ago)
can u please make a video on- How to get a chubby cheek??
Ani Dhar (1 year ago)
can u please make a video on- How to get a chubby cheek??
Ani Dhar (1 year ago)
can u please make a video on- How to get a chubby cheek??
Ani Dhar (1 year ago)
can u please make a video on- How to get a chubby cheek??
It's Kyuu (1 year ago)
This video should be called... common sense and not being a complete douche. Lol
Ved Prakash Sahu (1 year ago)
Thnku for the advice....i really like it
S Lopez (1 year ago)
So why did you and Eman break up?
Will Double S (1 year ago)
I Mike your jacket
Mauro Tolpe (1 year ago)
I never got into the friendzone because I'm nice and hot
Nirajan Nepali (1 year ago)
First friend and then lover.😘
Edinho Neves (1 year ago)
Percebi que você ficou sumido, mudou de foco, Sucesso man, bons tempos de gameplay MadeInBrazil.
Myna Skewes (1 year ago)
Why did You break UP to eman??? She Is a very cute girl!!!
Abhishek Thakur (1 year ago)
Sir can u tell me which video editing software do u use?😅😅
Zawadi Shop (1 year ago)
Put her in the friend zone first before she puts you.
Danny Lainez (1 year ago)
2:42 that my friend is so true...............
OrangeCounty92 (1 year ago)
He's right about having fun without her and posting it on Social media and make her miss you. It actually works. She's been taking the same approach. The next time we hung out our bond got stronger...lol. I've notice she watches a lot of my Instagram story's.
Swapnil Rogé (1 year ago)
Great Video Alex. Psychology simplified!
Diego Peralta (1 year ago)
NEED HELP. How do I make my intentions clear without going too far?
MIC INSTRUMENTALZ (1 year ago)
Best thing is to change. Leave for some time. Change your hair style, your clothing, and attitude. Go out and meet new ppl. Then she sees you making moves, and she wants to be a part of that. If you’re having a blast without her, she would be curious and want to be a part of it. Then you friend zone her 😂
mura mori (1 year ago)
her friend told me that she likes me like a friend like 3 weeks ago ,is it possible that something changed her i mean she started to text first and back then when her friend told me it was the first time when me and the girl actually talked
Sky Kryst (1 year ago)
I realised I'm not confident because I don't look good. Any video about that?
Alejandro Alvarez (1 year ago)
New clothes, haircut, try again
lunatics lounge (1 year ago)
Hello bro this is possibly the best advice you had given
WarN Peace (1 year ago)
Helpful video! Just waiting for a video that helps to prevent bad breath!
Rivy O (1 year ago)
I really like your videos Alex but this is horrible advice.
Alejandro Alvarez (1 year ago)
+Rivy O Okay, I see. Great. That's exactly what I was thinking. Thanks! Alot of these videos seem to be best for when people simply want to sleep with someone, which isn't what I was hoping to get advice for. The only thing I'm wondering about now is how soon would it be okay to tell someone that you like them. I know in my past experiences it's always been about 1 month.
Rivy O (1 year ago)
Its kind of cliche but just be your best self. Be the person you would be proud to be. Also just tell the girl you like her, be honest, don't play games. Honesty and self-confidence are the 2 of the most attractive qualities a person can have. If you are self-confident, like truly confident meaning you like and appreciate yourself you can pretty much have any person you want. granted you are not going to be everyone's cup of tea, vice versa. Last and really important, don't fall for the idea of a person, you will end up putting them on an unnecessary pedestal.
Alejandro Alvarez (1 year ago)
What would you recommend? I'm not in the friend zone but something like this might come in handy if I meet someone
Deepansh Goswami (1 year ago)
i'm already in..she get to know that i like her after she got into a relationship u will get shocked i was the one who set her up for that guy....but i get to know that i like her and i realized that she liked me then but now she is in a relationship that guy loves him, after some months he will leave clg and his home town is out of state....she is definitely attracted to me she never let me move on i tried to brk friendship believe me no. of times but she never let me go....what should i do wait for her break up or move on while there is no chance of brk up at least for 8 months
Arsene (1 year ago)
Nice change of pace. This was great dude
Kago Tabiyo (1 year ago)
Hi Alex, can you give some tips to maintain a proper long distance relationship...
Vijay Shah (1 year ago)
You are best
lalit jukar (1 year ago)
Alex is the hottest guy ..
Leomil Arvi Relorcasa (1 year ago)
Hey guys! I would like to ask for help because I have this BIG problem. So I liked a girl (classmate) reaaally much, I didn't really like her at first but our closeness was the reason i liked her. But the problem is at that time when I first liked her is she had a boyfriend. After 3 months of knowing her, they finally broke up. Of course I was there to comfort and support her. Then after a while, her close friends started to see me with her more often so they thought we looked good together so they teased us. I myself was flattered but I know that she was still hurt so I decided to wait a couple of months to make my move. But suddenly she asked me if I liked her, of course it would be a dealbreaker if I said no so I confessed my feelings. I thought that she liked me also because she asked me that. So I asked her if i had a chance, she said maybe but not now. She said values our friendship and she doesn't wanna lose it and I have to see other girls because i might get hurt while waiting for her. So our friendship got awkward and it really hurt us both. After a few weeks we got close again but this time she was a little more touchy with me. So i thought she liked me back already but then i asked her if she did. She again said in time yes but not now. I am relly confusedmright now 'cause i always think about her and i feel that i already love her because of how our bonds is right now. Sorry for the long post, there's no potato 'cause this isn't 9gag.
Nimish Deolalkar (1 year ago)
Why would anyone friendzone Alex Costa 😂
rishab yadav (1 year ago)
How to get confident when it comes to girl PLZZ
Luke Le Lievre (1 year ago)
My dude I'm so screwed honestly. What do you do if your ex gf has friend zoned you, and you're so friendzoned that you hold hands, cuddle, and even spoon with each other with just your underwear (and bra for her) on, yet she still only thinks of you as a friend? (She's said in like the last two months that whenever people ask her about us, she tells them we're just too incompatible and she wouldn't date me again).
Luke Le Lievre (1 year ago)
Yeah I wish I could get out of the deep black hole that is the friend zone, and into the tight white hole that is the um you know what.
Roman Moon-Goddard (1 year ago)
OMG...the first thing you said is what happened to me ;(
Lien Apparel (1 year ago)
good video
Shantanu Jha (1 year ago)
Practical, To the point, and without any hypothetical Bullshit. My respect for you just increased a thousand times. Great work man.
Nabil J (1 year ago)
Nice outfit bro..
Cmr tv (1 year ago)
Hey Alex I need advice man please. So this girl I've already told I liked her we introduced ourselves and I asked her for her number. She said she doesn't have a number but she can give me her snap. Anyways, we talked a little and during that time she was like really smiling. So I told her I was gonna hit her up. We've been talking for like 2 days now and she's been replying soooo slow man. Like even 12 hours just for a reply. You think I should keep pursuing her or stop please help
Cmr tv (1 year ago)
Zack Peters thanks 🙏 man I'll surely take this advice
Zack Peters (1 year ago)
D Noble my opinion, attempt to make the topic more interesting, don’t be afraid to ask questions. Get to know her more and find out what she’s passionate about. If she asks questions back then maybe you won’t have a chance, if it’s blunt and one word responses and such, you have to move on. Even attempt to not text her for a day or two and see if she attempts to hit you up at all.
Juan Escalante (1 year ago)
Thats some pretty good advice
Manav Shah (1 year ago)
Hey man this video of yours is gonna help me a lot.... Have been dumped twice but going to trya lot
Alex Costa (1 year ago)
+Manav Shah good luck man! 💪🏼
janxmr (1 year ago)
Thank you SO MUCH for this video!

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